Stress Management: Find Your Own Relief!
by: Ray Kelly
Would you believe that one of the biggest contributors to your state of
health is how stress free your home environment is? Those who live in stressful
conditions in home or at work are much more likely to have accidents or become
ill when compared to those who consider themselves to be in a non-stressful work
or home environment.
Unfortunately, the modern world has created situations in both home and work
that are at a higher level of stress than those of past generations. The world
today runs at a much faster pace then the world even ten or twenty years ago.
And it is speeding up if anything. The demands we make on ourselves are
increasing, as are the expectations we have of our relationships and ourselves.
Is it any surprise that Heart Attacks are a leading cause of death in the United
States? What can be done to fix this?
First consider that you will actually spend more working hours at work than
you will at home. Given that consider how stressful your job is and what about
it makes it stressful. Once you pinpoint the causes see if you can find a way to
reduce the stress level or delegate the responsibility of certain tasks that are
particularly troublesome.
Stressful activities are not the only employee problem though. The fact is
many feel stress simply because they do not like the job as a whole. If you do
not like your job then you owe it to yourself to go about seeking other
employment rather than staying at the risk of long-term health problems.
Sometimes the simple act of even exploring other opportunities lessens the
stress in your life. So even if you only look it is probably more beneficial to
you than continuing to endure a job that you do not enjoy.
Second, consider the town or city that you live in. Is this the ideal place
for you? Life is too short to live in a where you are unhappy. Yet, we all know
many people who complain day in and day out about the place they live and yet
they don't do anything about it. Often we make compromises about living
preferences to be close to family and these are not bad decisions. The support
and foundation that extended family provides is very important for our overall
health and well being. However, if that is not a consideration then there is no
reason one should not make a move to a happier and healthier environment.
The perfect environment for one person is not necessarily the perfect
environment for another though. For some, being beside the ocean is the ultimate
in tranquility while for others it is a stressful nightmare because of the
hurricane risk. Make a decision that is right for you in terms of where you
choose to live.
Third, consider your actual home in terms of the actual physical environment
itself and also the emotional environment created by the members living within
the home. Ideally both of these should be healing, peaceful and stress free.
It is always easier to fix the physical environment first. Decide to build a
sanctuary in your home. A sanctuary is a place you can retreat to that resonates
with positive energy. What is needed in that place depends on your own personal
taste. Some may want to make it a religious sanctuary or sacred space while for
others it may simply be a quiet place in nature. And do not underestimate the
effect of plants and landscaping on your own individual health. Healthy plants
reflect a healthy life.
Lastly, think about the emotional environment created by those who live in
your home. Is it healthy, peaceful and supportive? What underlying conflicts
disrupt the harmony in the home? Go about seeing that these are settled for the
best interest of all.
Create an environment that you are happy with both in your personal life and
in your professional life and you will appreciate the long-term benefits that
result.
|